{"id":3605,"date":"2020-10-01T12:58:12","date_gmt":"2020-10-01T02:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/?p=3605"},"modified":"2020-10-01T12:58:12","modified_gmt":"2020-10-01T02:58:12","slug":"farewell-charmaine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/2020\/10\/01\/farewell-charmaine\/","title":{"rendered":"Farewell Charmaine"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW161289461 BCX9\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW161289461 BCX9\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Body\">The CAH team wishes Charmaine happy retirement via Zoom&#8230;.<\/span><\/span><span class=\"EOP SCXW161289461 BCX9\" data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: justify\"><span class=\"TextRun SCXW161289461 BCX9\" lang=\"EN-US\" xml:lang=\"EN-US\" data-contrast=\"none\"><span class=\"NormalTextRun SCXW161289461 BCX9\" data-ccp-parastyle=\"Body\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-3606 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-400x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-400x225.png 400w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-600x338.png 600w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">On the 25th of June this year, Charmaine Sambathkumar completed her 25th year of work with the Centre for Adolescent Health. She recalls the day she started vividly, as the date is also her wedding anniversary.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">After migrating to Australia from Sri Lanka in 1993, Charmaine noticed a small ad in the paper for an administration job-opening, and 25 years later claims she has never wanted anything else.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cI worked for 15 years back home, but in Sri Lanka we were still working on typewriters, so that didn\u2019t count here.\u00a0So\u00a0I learnt new skills. I used to be mortally terrified of phones- but I managed to survive that, and my position description has changed vastly since I started.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">As an administrator at the Centre for Adolescent Health, Charmaine<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u2019<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">s dedication to her work allowed the rest of the Centre to function seamlessly. When reflecting on her time at CAH, Charmaine says\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201c<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">getting up and going to work was never a problem for me because I always enjoyed what I was doing. We<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u2019<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">re just like a big family. Everyone is on the same level, and for me it was all about the people.<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u201d<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">Throughout her time at the Centre, Charmaine has been a backbone of the friendly and inclusive environment that exists at the Centre. Going along to Christmas lunches at staff-members houses, and cooking for colleagues to bring people together at work. Most will never forget the first curry lunch she prepared at Gatehouse street- not only because the food was amazing, but because the kitchen was smoked out, everyone coughing and spluttering when the\u00a0chilli\u00a0powder hit the oil. Her generosity did not stop there; writing recipes for co-workers and sourcing ingredients for those who wished to try her recipes at home.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-3612 alignleft\" style=\"text-align: justify\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-1-400x225.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-1-400x225.png 400w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-1-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-1-600x338.png 600w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/A-Virtual-Goodbye-Hug-1.png 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">In return, she recalls many times when the generosity of colleagues was outstanding. While working in the Gatehouse Street office one day, she had a searing pain in her chest. The ambulance arrived to take her to the hospital and before she could climb in, Professor Susan Sawyer, co-director of CAH at the time,<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">appeared at her side, adamant she would be accompanying her.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cI don\u2019t know what she had on her plate that day, but she just came in the ambulance, waited with me in the emergency room, and then she stayed until my husband came.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">The most important thing she will take away from CAH is the many friendships that have been formed here.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cI\u2019ve kept in touch with quite a few who have left the Centre more that 10-15 years ago. That\u2019s what I keep telling the staff; just because I\u2019m not working here doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m not going to see you guys.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">When asked to reflect on\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">Charmaine&#8217;s<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\"> time at the Centre, co-director Prof. Susan Sawyer offered many beautiful words.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cIt will be hard to\u00a0conceptualise\u00a0life at the Centre for Adolescent Health without the quiet presence of your gentle good self. You have been at the Centre the entire time of my own tenure, which formally started when I returned from the States in 1995.\u00a0You were always there when I popped downstairs to catch up, with the photos of the children taking pride of place on the bookshelf behind\u00a0you. My\u00a0warmest memories of you are out the back of the old Centre in the garden, standing over your huge saucepans, your generous\u00a0\u2018Cooking with Charmaine\u2019\u00a0sessions quietly introduced us to the delights of Sri Lankan cooking.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>So\u00a0Charmaine, my very warm thanks to you for all you have done for all of us at the Centre over the many decades that you and your family have been part of the\u00a0Centre&#8217;s\u00a0family. May you have all the peace, health and happiness that you so richly deserve,\u201d\u00a0<\/em><span data-contrast=\"none\">she said.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">CAH co-director\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">Prof. George Patton <\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">made similar remarks about Charmaine\u2019s warm nature and friendl<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">y presence that will be dearly missed\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">around<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0the office.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cGiven our work in research, we can, as a group and as individuals, get a little caught up in ourselves and lost in detail. Your low-key, no-nonsense approach has been a great antidote. I always appreciated the quiet chats over signing forms or writing cards. You have been a fixture in our lives from the Centre\u2019s beginning. In your time, you have seen hundreds of staff move through: you have been there from the initial orientation through to eventual departure. In between, you have been a constant in all their working lives. No surprise you became a standing member of the social committee.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><em>\u201cI will miss the catch-ups and updates about kids and their progress in life. It\u2019s been great to see Dishan and Tish thrive in Australia: and your family has now grown again with the arrival of the next generation. It\u2019s been a privilege to know and work with you. I am hoping that, once the pandemic eases, we can see you face-to-face \u2013 virtual farewells are not the same<\/em><span data-contrast=\"auto\"><em>,\u201d<\/em> he said.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">On a final departing note, Charmaine says\u00a0<\/span><em>\u201cthey\u2019re a really great bunch of people and I really love them all. I will still keep in touch, and I will be inviting them all for meals at my house.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">For people outside of the Centre\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">Charmaine<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0has been<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0is the one who answered the research phone number and always knew who to put you in contact with.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify\"><span data-contrast=\"none\">For the team at the Centre\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">we will all miss Charmaine<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">, her warmth, her smile and her care for the team<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0and wish her the best of fun spending time with her two grandchildren\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">in<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0her\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">well earn<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">ed<\/span><span data-contrast=\"none\">\u00a0retirement.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233117&quot;:false,&quot;134233118&quot;:false,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335551550&quot;:1,&quot;335551620&quot;:1,&quot;335559685&quot;:0,&quot;335559731&quot;:0,&quot;335559737&quot;:0,&quot;335559740&quot;:240}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3610 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/Screen2-456x416.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"456\" height=\"416\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/Screen2-456x416.png 456w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/Screen2-304x277.png 304w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/Screen2-768x700.png 768w, https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/files\/2020\/10\/Screen2.png 1432w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 456px) 100vw, 456px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The CAH team wishes Charmaine happy retirement via Zoom&#8230;.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":156,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3605","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-news"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3605","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/156"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3605"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3605\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3614,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3605\/revisions\/3614"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3605"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3605"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.rch.org.au\/cah\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3605"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}